I have a bad case of the Mondays.
Actually, I’ve had a bad case of the Mondays for a little
over two weeks now, and there doesn’t seem to be any end in sight. My energy levels
have plummeted, my mood has been overcast at best, and I have gotten along by
doing only the minimum amount of meaningful work it takes to function and
continue looking like a responsible adult.
I haven’t looked at my novel once (still stuck halfway through
the first chapter). I toyed with the idea of trying the Pomodoro technique and
put it off. I’ve read maybe one or two stories. And the last thing I want to do
is write.
So I asked myself this morning, what do I want to do? The answer that popped into my head was, “stare at
the wall and slip slowly into madness.”
Ah. I need a cup of coffee. Hang on a moment.
Ah. I need a cup of coffee. Hang on a moment.
Better. And a blanket. And a hot pop-tart.
We all find ourselves in this place at some point in our
lives, usually multiple times throughout our lives. We’re exhausted,
demoralized, and it feels as if every little thing takes a monumental effort.
But we can’t stay here. Life must go on, work must be done,
and it’s not fair to dedicate what little spunk you have left only to paying
bills and fighting traffic. The things that make you happy and recharge your
batteries deserve your attention too!
So how do we battle the effects of low morale, especially
when it comes to writing? Writing takes a lot out of us. Ernest Hemingway
famously said “There is nothing to writing. All you do is sit down at a typewriter
and bleed.” When you’re already feeling down, entertaining the idea of writing
can feel catastrophic.
Which is why this is the time to take baby steps and not
push your mood even further down. This is the time to bolster your happy
thoughts, not tear them down with guilt. So what if you haven’t written word
one in a month? That’s not a long-term trend by any means. You can change that
any day, so start with today.
Sit down. Have something to drink within easy reach. Maybe a
bowl of snacks. Give yourself no excuse to get up and distract yourself with
easier-to-satisfy needs. This time is for you. Listen to some relaxing, or
thematic, music – whichever suits the writing you’re attempting to accomplish.
If you’re struggling to commit the time, why not consider
giving the Pomodoro technique a try. This little trick has been applauded for
its ability to increase your focus in lots of areas that require you to sit
down and concentrate for extended periods of time: writing, reading, studying,
etc. It gets a lot of attention for being a work technique, but don’t be afraid
to use it for relaxation too. The idea is that you set a timer for 20-30
minutes, and while that timer is running, your attention is centered on one
task only. If you find you have trouble getting the work done while time is
ticking, you are allowed to sit quietly and think. Even this will get your mind
into a recognized patter than when the timer is running, it’s time to get to
work. Using those minutes for meditation will do you some good too (the brain
keeps working, even if you don’t feel like you are!). Here’s an online timer
you can use right now!
Remember also not to fall into the big traps of demotivating yourself even further.
If you’re in a writing rut and you literally cannot bring yourself to continue,
why not try sharing what you do have with a friend? They might have just the
right comments to motivate you to continue. Or dedicate some real time to
reading a book for enjoyment – it could be that your word well has become depleted.
Probably the best thing you can do right now, though, is
speak encouragement to yourself. Don’t make yourself even more depressed by
feeding the shadows with lies. This season will pass, and you’ll be back on your feet soon. Take
little steps. Even if it’s only 20 minutes a day, try to get back into a positive
rhythm.
What are your techniques for getting out of a writing rut?
Let me know in the comments!
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